Includes bibliographical references (p. 233-235).

Bottoms up : why Jesus attended a wedding and turned the water into wine -- Grow up!, or, Why holiness does not mean prepubescence -- Good sex : when body and soul come together -- May I have your attention? focused awareness in sex and spiritual life -- This is my body : the importance of intimacy -- Groanings that cannot be uttered : when intimacy goes beyond words -- I'm beside myself! the role of ecstasy in sexual and spiritual life -- Think about it! the role of sexual imagination -- Training wheels : the role of masturbation in sexual life -- The unkindly cut : why circumcision? -- Can't get enough : the bondage of sexual addiction -- Can't touch this : the agony of sexual anorexia -- Disordered desire : the nature of perversion and inordinate desire -- When preachers become predators -- There is no such thing as casual sex, or, Why sex requires covenant -- Sexual healing.