TY  - BOOK
AU  - Harley,Willard F.
TI  - The one: a field guide to relationships that last 
SN  - 0800759664
AV  - HQ 801 .H32728 2004
PY  - 2004///, c2002
CY  - Grand Rapids, Mich.
PB  - F.H. Revell
KW  - Man-woman relationships
KW  - Interpersonal relations
KW  - Couples
N1  - "Previously published in 2002 under the title Buyers, renters & freeloaders"--T.p. verso; Includes bibliographical references (p. 195); 1; Looking for lasting love? --; pt. 1; Buyers, renter, and freeloaders - what are they? --; 2; What you see is what is get : the freeloaders agreement --; 3; I'll do anything to make you happy ... for a while : the renter's agreement --; 4; We'll be lovers till death do us part : the buyer's agreement --; pt. 2; The struggle to stay together - what makes it so hard? --; 5; Not on the same page : what happens when agreements don't match --; 6; We all have split personalities : givers and takers --; 7; No such thing as a free lunch : dependency and control --; 8; Buyer resistant : the electric fence personality --; 9; Compatibility test or curse? : living together before marriage --; pt. 3; The buyer's agreement - how can you make it work? --; 10; Measuring your state of mind : agreements you and your partner make --; 11; Adopting the buyer's strategy : the policy of joint agreement --; 12; Bargaining with finesse : guidelines for successful negotiation --; 13; Ready to buy? --; Appendix A : romantic relationship attitudes questionnaire --; Appendix B : personal history questionnaire --; Notes
ER  -