The one : a field guide to relationships that last /
Willard F. Harley, Jr.
- Pbk. ed.
- Grand Rapids, Mich. : F.H. Revell, 2004, c2002.
- 195 p. ; 23 cm.
"Previously published in 2002 under the title Buyers, renters & freeloaders"--T.p. verso.
Includes bibliographical references (p. 195).
Looking for lasting love? -- Buyers, renter, and freeloaders - what are they? -- What you see is what is get : the freeloaders agreement -- I'll do anything to make you happy ... for a while : the renter's agreement -- We'll be lovers till death do us part : the buyer's agreement -- The struggle to stay together - what makes it so hard? -- Not on the same page : what happens when agreements don't match -- We all have split personalities : givers and takers -- No such thing as a free lunch : dependency and control -- Buyer resistant : the electric fence personality -- Compatibility test or curse? : living together before marriage -- The buyer's agreement - how can you make it work? -- Measuring your state of mind : agreements you and your partner make -- Adopting the buyer's strategy : the policy of joint agreement -- Bargaining with finesse : guidelines for successful negotiation -- Ready to buy? -- Appendix A : romantic relationship attitudes questionnaire -- Appendix B : personal history questionnaire -- Notes. 1. pt. 1. 2. 3. 4. pt. 2. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. pt. 3. 10. 11. 12. 13.