TY - BOOK AU - Pembroke,Neil TI - The art of listening: dialogue, shame, and pastoral care SN - 0802839673 (pbk.) AV - BV 4647 .L56 P46 2002 PY - 2002/// CY - London, New York, Grand Rapids, Mich. PB - T & T Clark/Handsel Press, William B. Eerdmans Pub. Co. KW - Listening KW - Religious aspects KW - Christianity KW - Shame KW - Conscience KW - Pastoral counseling N1 - Includes bibliographical references; Presence as grace and as availability : the contribution of Gabriel Marcel -- Presence as I-thou relation and as confirmation : the contribution of Martin Buber -- Pastoral availability : the foundation of care -- Pastoral confirmation I : integration in the community of the self -- Pastoral confirmation II : the role of the conscience -- Shame -- Shame and failures in availability in counselling and care -- Shame and disconfirmation in counselling and in care -- Shame, sin and conversion to genuine practice ER -