TY - BOOK AU - Hetzendorfer,Ruth TI - The pastoral counseling handbook: a guide to helping the hurting SN - 9780834124653 (pbk.) AV - REF BV 4012.2 .H44 2009 PY - 2009/// CY - Nashville PB - Beacon Hill Press of Kansas City KW - Pastoral counseling KW - Handbooks, manuals, etc N1 - Includes bibliographical references (p. 285-288); pt. 1. The helping process. The power of listening and the stages of helping -- pt. 2. Most common roots. Root of rejection -- Root of unforgiveness -- Root of pride -- Root of perfectionism -- Root of rebellion -- Root of sexual abuse -- Root of dysfunction -- pt. 3. Most common (negative) fruits. Fruit of depression -- fruit of anxiety (worry and fear) -- Fruit of low self-esteem -- Fruit of anger -- Fruit of shame and guilt -- pt. 4. Common problems. Grief and loss -- Divorce -- Affairs -- Stepparenting -- Sexual addiction -- pt. 5. Supplemental topics. Engagement -- Marital helps -- Legal and ethical issues -- Supplements ER -