TY  - BOOK
AU  - Miller,Donald
TI  - Scary close: dropping the act and finding true intimacy 
SN  - 9780785213185 (hardcover)
AV  - BV 4597.53 .I55 M55 2014
PY  - 2014///]
CY  - Nashville, Tennessee
PB  - Nelson Books
KW  - Miller, Donald,
KW  - Intimacy (Psychology)
KW  - Man-woman relationships
KW  - Mate selection
N2  - When fling after fling led to lots of drama and a long series of heartaches, Donald Miller decided he'd had enough. There must be a better way to soothe loneliness without jumping on a roller coaster, to feel affirmation without putting on a show, to find true love. It wasn't just about finding the right girl, though that helped. Once he found her, he had to know what to do or "who to be." A manipulative control freak? A successful workaholic? His usual methods had drawbacks. But the alternatives were not just hard to do; they were hard to imagine. Nevertheless, at forty years old he made a scary decision: to be himself no matter what it cost
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