TY - BOOK AU - Sells,James Nathan AU - Yarhouse,Mark A. ED - Christian Association for Psychologcal Studies. TI - Counseling couples in conflict: a relational restoration model SN - 9780830839254 (pbk. : alk. paper) AV - BV 4012.27 .S46 2011 PY - 2011/// CY - Downers Grove, Ill. PB - IVP Academic KW - Marriage counseling KW - Pastoral counseling KW - Counseling KW - Religious aspects KW - Christianity KW - fast N1 - Includes bibliographical references and index; Marriage at a crucial stage of existence -- Three fights in one -- Marriage is an us -- Pastoral and counseling boundaries: invested but not overinvolved -- Pain and defense -- Offense and injury -- Grace and justice -- Empathy and trust -- Forgiveness -- The expressive art of sexuality -- The product of art: children and parenting -- Sexual infidelity -- Divorce and blended families -- Substance abuse and behavioral addictions -- A graceful conclusion N2 - Most therapeutic approaches, especially those of a cognitive orientation, are not very effective in dealing with high conflict relationships--couples often heading toward divorce by the time they seek help. Counseling Couples in Conflict is a resource for counselors and therapists who want to be ready for these difficult cases. Utilizing a relational conflict and restoration model Mark Yarhouse and James Sells point the way beyond the cycle of pain towards marital healing. --from publisher description ER -