Part I: What's the problem? -- Why hasn't God brought me the love of my life? -- Gut check -- Where I am coming from -- Dating is not about marriage -- Part II: The program -- Keep a log -- If you say, "there are no good prospects," you don't get it -- Meet five a week -- Change your traffic pattern -- Get over the stigma : join a service -- Stick with it, and get your numbers up -- Get your team together -- Tie me to a tree -- Don't limit yourself to a type -- Check your expectations at the door -- Forget love at first sight -- Go out with almost anyone once, and maybe again -- Date a non-Christian? -- Drop your hankie (or palm pilot) -- Follow a strategy from beginning to middle to end -- Be yourself from the beginning -- Don't play games -- Where is the testosterone? -- Keep your boundaries and don't settle -- Part III: Get your dating self in shape -- Monitor your internal world and face your issues -- Get healthy -- Don't be Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde -- Look in the mirror -- Unleash your libido or reel it in -- Do you have to get married? : dating is not for the lonely -- Turn off the autopilot and drive -- Part IV: Stay focused on what's important -- Will this friendship ever heat up? -- Beauty is only skin deep, but character goes all the way to the bone.