Part I: When loves grows cold ... -- In the beginning: A painful revelation -- How did the feelings die? -- Trampling the on you love -- Part II: Starting to breathe again -- From trampling to submitting -- Pursuing your woman's desire: oneness -- Facing the top ten love-chillers -- Leading as a bondservant -- Part III: Manifesting your bondservant heart -- The "Master" defines your rights -- Your time is not your own -- Making room for her to express her gifts -- Making room for her weaknesses -- Making room for her thoughts -- The source of your prestige -- Part IV: Igniting your bondservant mind -- Study your "Master" to serve her better -- Learning how to make the right pitch -- Enjoy serving with passion -- Serving as spiritual leader -- Minding your kids' spiritual growth -- Get rid of those sins -- Part V: Enjoying a resurrected relationship -- Vive la difference! -- Don't leave sex to your feelings -- No trampling this bed! -- An open letter to wives -- A closing word.